Good morning, everyone and happy Thursday. There is a difference between being accommodating and letting people walk all over you. The people pleasers out there have a really hard time in their ability to distinguish between the two or at least acknowledge when it's happening. Being overly adaptable can lead to being taken advantage of and those poor people pleasers are the ones who suffer.
Today's quote is, "You are meant to walk on doormats not people, don't do it and don't allow it." People pleasers struggle with this while the offenders know exactly what they are doing.
Situations that require flexibility are part of life. Things happen. Schedules change. We borrow money and forget to pay it back, or do we? I was seeing if you were paying attention. Of course, a good rule is never borrowing money from friends because it never ends well but if you are a borrower, pay it back. Give it back, don't break it (and if you did, replace it!). Respect someone's time, energy and possessions.
Walk on doormats but never walk on people and never let anyone walk all over you!
Have a wonderful Thursday everyone!~Love, Amy
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