TIME TO SAY GOODBYE

Good morning all.  Happy Tuesday.  Are you a loyal friend?  The kind that is there for someone no matter what is asked of you?  Having such busy lives it is not always easy to drop everything and run but when someone matters to us I think it is safe to say we do what we can.  How do you handle the friend who doesn't just need you but sucks you dry.  The one filled with drama who perceives life as a giant fiasco.  We've all had those and some of us still do.

It is time to let go for this is no longer a friend but an albatross.  Today's quote is, "Release those who drag you into their abyss."  For those type of people no amount of support or sympathy is enough.  You are only good to them when you are in that hole so they can stand on your shoulders and jump out.  That is not a friend.  That is an energy vampire.

Friends are there to provide support.  To be an ear.  To give advice when asked.  Our job is to reciprocate.  When it becomes both lopsided and one sided it is time for us to rethink that relationship.  And please please don't feel guilty!  Just because someone has been in your life for many years does not mean they get to abuse you and it also does not mean you have to continue to be on the receiving end of that abuse.  You can let go.  Not only can you, you should.  Boundaries can be difficult to create but when your sanity is involved it is time to be a quick learner! 

Have a wonderful Tuesday everyone! ~Love, Amy

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