SELF LOVE IS THE BEST LOVE

Good Morning all!  I have become your morning weather person and I will tell you it is already like a beach day!  Well not really but it will be later.  80 degrees as of later today.  Please, please go get some sunshine.  This incredible weather is only a tease before the real thing so enjoy it while it lasts.

I refuse to get political on my blog but I have to comment on something I did see on a social media post.  A policeman threw a 22 year old girl down to the ground after some sort of altercation.  I cannot for the life of me imagine what exactly a 22 year old skinny girl could have done that would warrant that kind of behavior from a man of the law. 

We could all be asking ourselves what is going on?  Today's quote, "What is the equation for happiness - first to love yourself."  You may be wondering what in the world that has to do with the above story.  I will tell you.  Anyone who exhibits that kind of behavior does NOT love himself or even like himself.  He is merely exhibiting power of the very worst kind.  Abusive, mean and brutal. 

Remember, this was an unarmed skinny girl in heels.  A threat to a police officer?  No way.  Therefore this police person has only one way to feel good about himself and that is to be a bully.  What must he have been like as a child.  My hope of course is that he loses his ability to remain on the job but we must think deeper on this one.  This is a person who is really and truly unhappy.

This is a person who was never happy with himself or anything about himself.  It is a classic situation.  Beat up someone else so that you can feel better about yourself.  And this is why when it comes to love, you are number one.  Self love is the most important love there is.  I always say this during my Guided Meditation when we arrive at the heart center.  I we don't love ourselves, how can we have the ability to love another for self love is the most important of all the love there is.  How can we show compassion if we don't know what love is? 

When you love yourself unconditionally it is only then that you will find true happiness.  True love of ourselves gives ourselves to be open to our hearts dreams, wishes and desires because if we love ourselves we know we deserve whatever it is we want.  Think about it.  When we focus on the negative it is because we don't think we are deserving.  I am here to tell you that you deserve everything that you want and more BUT if you don't count yourself as your first true love then you just placed yourself on the back burner.

Be in love with yourself, love yourself unconditionally and support yourself and see how you change!  To love yourself unconditionally is NOT conceited.  It is crucial for the life you wish for.  Have a wonderful Tuesday everyone!~Love, Amy