BLAME NO ONE

Good Morning all!  What a quick week it has been.  Quick and long at the same time.  A nice day coming up and ridiculously hot in the next few days.  Plan your outfit accordingly!  If  you are too hot or too cold you always blame the weatherman.  If  you run out of milk for your coffee you can blame the person who used it last.  As you can see, blame is my topic this morning.  Very rarely do we look at what we did.  It's much easier to blame.

Today's quote, "After you finished blaming everyone else - take a look at the role that you played."  I'm sure I wrote something along those lines once before but it's important to remember that.  How easy is it to blame someone else for everything.  To take no responsibility for something at all.  That is a big problem these days.  We don't want to blame our children for not doing well in school, so we blame the teachers.  We don't want to blame our unhappiness on ourselves so we blame our situations, or the people around us, or our jobs. 

You know where I am going.  The list is endless.  Take responsibility for you period.  You are the one responsible for your own happiness in every aspect of your life.  If you are stuck at a job that you don't like, look for ways to make it better.  Find a soulmate at your job.  I know one exists.  Take a walk outside for lunch.  Being too busy is not an excuse.  Get out of your building and get some fresh air. 

You want to be doing something else?  Find a way to make that happen.  There is always a way to change your situation and your life.  It is entirely up to you.  Stop the blame.  Figure out what it is you need to do.  Find a positive support system.  Stop hanging out with negative people.  Blame is too easy.  Sorry if I sound unkind but this is a mold we all need to break out of!  You will be amazed at how great you feel once you take complete ownership of your own life!  Have a wonderful Friday all!~Love, Amy