I remember when I was first married and a friend of mine was in town. She came over to my apartment and the first thing she asked me was where my husband was to which I replied, "I don't know." She was both shocked and appalled when I told her I didn't know because I myself had been gone all day. That sentence was followed by another expression of shock and awe.
She couldn't believe we were both doing our own thing and I couldn't believe she thought that was strange. My husband and I were independent people who had lives before coming together. Being married didn't change that. Today's quote is, "Love someone let them free - love someone let them be - love is neither possession nor ownership."
Just because you are a couple does not mean you are not an individual. You can love your partner when you are together and when you are out with your girlfriends. Even now in 2019 I have heard women say, "my husband would never let me...." We don't start out as couples. We start out as individuals with lives and aspirations. Just because you become a couple does not mean you have to give up on those things and more importantly give yourself away.
To love someone is wonderful. To have love in your life is a blessing and treat that person as such. Wishing you all a wonderful Thursday and a wonderful and happy Valentine's Day with your special Valentine.
~Love, Amy
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